Men – Learn the real secret to successfully meet women online. From the people who run the dating sites.

4/18/2023 12:00:00 AM

On FlirtFinder the UK’s best chat and date site we have seen hundreds of thousands of online dating hopefuls flirt and date online. Some men on our flirt dating site get replies to over 85% of the messages they send - How are they doing it?

1) Make the first move

Women respond to it. It's like a little test in a way, someone too shy to make a move is not a good prospect, confidence is attractive. Read their profile and reference it, ask a question.

2) Don`t come on too strong

For most women a physical relationship is not where they start from - they need to get to know and like someone, feel respected first. Flirty is good, dirty is not.

3) Make sure you have a good picture of you looking your best

Smiling warmly works best with nice surroundings and backdrop. No sad or aggressive pictures.

4) Use local search to find people near you

Be sure mention they are near you in your message.

5) Make sure your greeting is not too brief and has details about yourself

Include information about your interests and what you like to do. Say something about the relationship you want and the kind of person you want to meet. For the most replies steer clear of stuff that is too niche or likely to be polarising.

6) Reference their photo or greeting

It shows you read it and shows you are interested in them.

Coming soon, look out for some examples of what works and what is not going to work for you!